Love the Sinner, Hate the Sin

I have been working with this coworker for awhile, he was hired around the same time that I did. He was hired as a maintenance worker and quickly became my favorite one because I felt comfortable asking for help without feeling as though I was being an imposition. In exchange for his help I gave him some extra samples of the pastry I was planning to sample that day. We would joke that he was the official taste tester and if he dropped dead I would know that I shouldn’t sample that pastry.

Over the course of our time working together I had gotten the suspicion that he had a “colored” past as they say. He went to Las Vegas for his Birthday and let’s just say he was not going for the shows. I never asked him for details because it was not my business to know. On Tuesday he was sporting a freshly shaved head and I commented on how dapper he looked. He smiled and thanked me, he then added that he did it every few months to keep him humble. I asked him what that meant and he admitted it helped him remember what life was like for him when he was in prison. Looking in the mirror everyday and seeing his shaved head was a good reminder of where he came from and to be thankful of the life he had now. It is easy for him to forget how terrible life was in prison. He confessed that he can easily fall back into his old ways and lose control with money, he needs to constantly check himself. He can get a lot of bonuses at his other job and the temptation to use them to go back to dealing drugs can be hard to overcome at times. He needs needs to see his shaved head to remind him of how awful his life was. He never wants to go back to prison, he has a better life now with a son that he needs to provide for and set a good example.

After telling me his story I think he recognized how vulnerable he was being and tried to joke it off saying that he knew how weird it sounded. I told him that it didn’t sound weird at all and I admired him for being so aware of his limits. I said it was great that he took active steps to keep himself from giving into temptation. The fact that he is smart enough to recognize that he still has the impulse to misuse money and shaving his head helped keep him from repeating his mistakes was a great accomplishment. I thanked him for sharing his story and he was an inspiration. He is a blessing in my life because he reminded me what a gift my life was and not to take anything for granted.

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2 thoughts on “Love the Sinner, Hate the Sin

  1. Great story and thanks for sharing it with us. It is so easy to fall back into old habits. Habits that brought us nothing but pain and heartache. Why we always want to go back to that is beyond me, but we do?????? I am thankful he has something to remind him of those days and that he blesses you as well. Taking life for granted is only going to bring us death in one way or the other. God Bless, SR

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